DON'T MISTAKE YOUR VOCATION
The safest plan, and the one most sure of success for the young man
starting in life, is to select the vocation which is most congenial to his
tastes. Parents and guardians are often quite too negligent in regard to
this. It very common for a father to say, for example: "I have five boys.
I will make Billy a clergyman; John a lawyer; Tom a doctor, and Dick a
farmer." He then goes into town and looks about to see what he will do
with Sammy. He returns home and says "Sammy, I see watch-making is a nice
genteel business; I think I will make you a goldsmith." He does this,
regardless of Sam's natural inclinations, or genius.
We are all, no doubt, born for a wise purpose. There is as much diversity
in our brains as in our countenances. Some are born natural mechanics,
while some have great aversion to machinery. Let a dozen boys of ten years
get together, and you will soon observe two or three are "whittling" out
some ingenious device; working with locks or complicated machinery. When
they were but five years old, their father could find no toy to please
them like a puzzle. They are natural mechanics; but the other eight or
nine boys have different aptitudes. I belong to the latter class; I never
had the slightest love for mechanism; on the contrary, I have a sort of
abhorrence for complicated machinery. I never had ingenuity enough to
whittle a cider tap so it would not leak. I never could make a pen that I
could write with, or understand the principle of a steam engine. If a man
was to take such a boy as I was, and attempt to make a watchmaker of him,
the boy might, after an apprenticeship of five or seven years, be able to
take apart and put together a watch; but all through life he would be
working up hill and seizing every excuse for leaving his work and idling
away his time. Watchmaking is repulsive to him.
Unless a man enters upon the vocation intended for him by nature, and best
suited to his peculiar genius, he cannot succeed. I am glad to believe
that the majority of persons do find their right vocation. Yet we see many
who have mistaken their calling, from the blacksmith up (or down) to the
clergyman. You will see, for instance, that extraordinary linguist the
"learned blacksmith," who ought to have been a teacher of languages; and
you may have seen lawyers, doctors and clergymen who were better fitted by
nature for the anvil or the lapstone.